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The children don’t know about his sex addiction and I don’t want them to.Finding a good therapist and people who have been through the same experience is critical.There were many times when the pain was so bad that I wanted to die.I asked “why” over and over but have learnt that the why may never be known in sex addiction and accepting that was important.That night, while the kids were in other rooms doing their normal things, I trawled through hundreds of email exchanges with other women and had to contend with the most explicit, graphic adult content and words.The words he used, the explicitness, I didn’t recognise the man and yet I had been married to him for 20 years.I know my husband would not be here today if I had told more people. I was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder and although the impact has lessened, I still feel on high alert for the next catastrophe that could happen.I was prescribed anti-depressants and began to drink a lot around this time which brought me to an even lower point.
“The discovery of the addiction is usually a bombshell.
Ava is in her 40s, has been married for 22 years and has four children My husband was and is my best friend.
We were married 20 years with four kids when I found out about his sex addiction.
We have four kids ranging in age from eight to 18 who we both absolutely adore.
I remember saying to my husband, “the decision I make will be 99 per cent for our children, 0.9 per cent for me and you will be the 0.1 per cent that is left over”.